You're super excited to open his, um, package, but what if you discover that Santa left you a small lump of coal this time instead of your own... Sorry, shorties."I dated a man for about four months who had a really, really tiny penis. "I wasn't sure I was attracted to him in the first place, so when he turned out to have a really small penis, I decided I wasn't that into it.""I stuck my hand inside his pants to get a better grasp on the situation.
found that the average American man's penis is 5.6 inches long when erect—it's a total relationship deal-breaker.
Carol Queen, staff sexologist at Good Vibrations, agrees, saying that plenty of women have partners who are smaller than average, and they have enjoyable sex.
The notion that "opposites attract" is completely bulldozed over, for the quite legitimate fear of inundating each dater with people they will absolutely despise.But is dating online that different from the traditional methods on a psychological level?For those actively looking for a relationship (or at least no-strings fun), there is no shortage of websites available, from straight up dating sites like OKCupid, e Harmony and Match to niche communities like Tastebuds (music matching), JDate (for Jewish singles) and even the eyebrow raising Clown Passions (you can guess).It's not like the guy can do anything about it."But what if you really like him?"A small penis doesn't have to be a deal-breaker at all," promises Claire Cavanah, Babeland cofounder and coauthor of "Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex." "Great lovers do it right because they pay attention to our responses, care about what we like, and are as enthusiastic about giving pleasure as they are about receiving it."You know what they say, it's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean.