The top deal-breaker among men and women is a "disheveled or unclean appearance," according to 71 percent of women and 63 percent of men.Seventy-two percent of women and 60 percent of men can't stand a "lazy" partner.It might be better to break the news about herpes to someone who has already grown attached to you.Kissing, cuddling, and fondling are safe, so you don't have to tell before you do that.If you're "too needy," 69 percent of women and 57 percent of men are walking away."No sense of humor" is a major turn-off for 58 percent of women and 50 percent of men.
Follow two rules: First, don't wait until after having sex.And it's important to understand that genital HSV is very common, affecting about 20% of the U. If you hope to be sexually intimate with your date at some point, you may feel like you're keeping a secret.If you are one to be candid with people, you'll want to blurt it out. There are some things you should reveal about yourself right away -- for example, that you're married, or that you're just in town for the week -- but some things are better left for the appropriate moment. But now, scientists at Western Sydney University, Indiana University, the University of Florida, Singapore Management University, and Rutgers University have examined the "undesirable personality traits," and "unhealthy lifestyles" across sexual, romantic, and friendship contexts.The researchers conducted six separate studies to determine what men and women consider the absolute worst offenders when it comes to dating. Some of the general takeaways: deal breakers are more potent in long-term relationships than short-term (you're less invested in your partner when it's a fling, and far more willing to overlook the annoyances); women have more deal breakers than men, possibly because the risks are more dire (i.e.